8 Sexy Secrets for Conception
Whether you've been trying to have a baby for a while or you've just now decided it's time to join the ranks of parenthood, one thing is certain—it should be fun!
Pick up a New Nightgown
Go on a shopping trip and find something totally different from what you normally wear to bed. For instance, if you are an old T-shirt kind of gal, pick up something lacy, flowing, and formal. If you wear conservative cotton nightgowns, try to find an old-fashioned, plunging, baby doll nighty. Surprise both yourself and your spouse with unique bed wear. Sometimes doing something out of the ordinary can generate some serious heat.
Add Some Risk to the Mix
Make a list of all the places you think would be fun to conceive your baby. These should be silly, off-the-wall places that make you laugh and maybe get your motor running. For instance, think how interesting it would be to tell your adult child that they were conceived on the top of the Empire State Building—or in an elevator, on the top of a classic car…
Sweeten up Your Sex Life
Chocolate is one of the most sensual flavors on earth. From dipping strawberries into chocolate fondue, to drizzling chocolate syrup over one another, chocolate can spice up any baby-making enterprise. Sometimes just sharing a box of chocolate in front of a crackling fire can rev up your desire.
Make It a Meal
According to ancient folklore, there are many foods that stimulate libido and increase fertility. Some don’t sound too bad, such as asparagus and garlic, while others sound downright unappetizing (orchid bulbs?). Invite your spouse to a baby-making dinner of oysters, a spicy curry, figs, green M&Ms, and champagne. If he questions the menu, tell him what you’re doing and that he’s lucky not to be eating dried rhinoceros horn or the skin of a skink!
Fertility jewelry is alive and well in the 21st century. All cultures have had their own signs and symbols of fertility, ranging from turtles to nursing mothers. Rose quartz is reportedly the “rock of love.” Exchanging unique pieces of jewelry is a wonderful way to remind one another of your new commitment, especially if you can find a turtle made of rose quartz! A simple search on the Internet for fertility jewelry will yield numerous options.
Visit the Great Outdoors
While some ancient cultures believed that lovemaking in freshly sown fields would help make them fertile, sex in the dirt might not be your idea of romance. However, getting outside can be very stimulating and even fun. Imagine a remote meadow of wildflowers or skinny dipping in a private pool in the forest. Just remember to find an extremely secluded area—you don’t want to surprise anyone on a family outing! And don’t forget the sunscreen!
Let the Games Begin
Fun and games takes on a whole new meaning if it means strip poker! Almost any game you and your spouse enjoy can be twisted just a bit to make it sexy and fun. Try playing scrabble in the nude! Or perhaps you can make a sexy wager over a football game, bowling, or a pool game. Whoever loses has to … fill in your own blank!
Practice Makes Perfect
Conception sex doesn’t have to be a chore. Lovemaking was one of the reasons you married, one of the reasons why you enjoy one another so much. Deciding to have a baby shouldn’t put a stop to that, and trust me, you are going to need all the sizzle you can get after Baby arrives! Make your conception time fun so that if it doesn’t work the first time, who cares! The fun lies in the practicing.
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