Keeping Our Children Safe in an Unsafe World

by Jennifer Lacey

Safety Tips for Children

  • I will always check with my parents first.
  • I will always play or go places with at least one other person--not alone.
  • I will trust my feelings. If something feels wrong, it is wrong.
  • I will put physical distance between myself and whatever is making me feel uneasy.
  • I know that certain people that I don't know can help me out of dangerous situations: women, moms with kids, older kids, police officers in uniform, or clerks in a store.
  • I know that my body belongs to me.
  • I will walk and play in places my parents approve of. I will avoid areas like alleys or dark stairwells.
  • I will not talk to, accept gifts, or rides from adults I do not know without my parent's permission.
  • I will always lock my home and car doors. I will not admit that I am home alone.
  • I will learn to dial 911. I will learn my address and phone number. I will learn to use the pay phone without money.

(Reprinted with permission from Marc Klaas and the KlaasKids Foundation. Copyright 1994.)

Safety Tips For Parents

  • Maintain current addresses and phone numbers of your children's friends.
  • Know your neighbors. Every state allows the public to check the criminal backgrounds of those who have access to your children. Just contact local law enforcement.
  • Know your neighborhood. Show your children the safest places to play and areas to avoid; like alleys and dark stairwells.
  • Do not advertise your child's name on clothing, school supplies or backpacks.
  • Get a cell phone or pager for your child. This way you can be in contact with them at all times.
  • If you have an Internet ready computer in the home, put it in a common area and consider using blocking software like Net Nanny. This way you can monitor your children's Internet activities.
  • Seek alternatives to leaving your children alone at home, in the car, or outside.
  • Teach your children how to use a pay phone without money, and how to call 911.
  • If you maintain firearms in your home, use approved trigger locks and keep them safely locked up.
  • Be a role model to your children. Listen and talk to your children, encourage them not to keep secrets, and settle arguments with words, not violence.
  • By promoting your child's self-esteem and letting them know that you love them for who they are, you will teach them the self-confidence they need to avoid drugs and crime.

(Reprinted with permission from Marc Klaas and the KlaasKids Foundation. Copyright 1994.)

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