Surround Yourself with Beauty
Surround yourself with things that make you feel peaceful, such as your favorite clothing, pictures on the wall, perfumes, or incense, recommends Belov. I have a bowl of my favorite potpourri on a table next to my front door. When I walk in, I smell whiffs of the Mediterranean Sea, which help me de-stress.
Keep your Dates Alive
You may not feel too sexy at 36-weeks pregnant, but Simpson advises you continue going on dates with your spouse. "Every week, spend time just the two of you—go to dinner, catch a movie, or take a walk," she says. "It will be much easier for your couple relationship to thrive post-baby if you've maintained a close relationship during your pregnancy."
Take Time for Yourself
All of the experts, including Belov and Crum, suggest that pregnancy is the perfect time to indulge. Record the simple moments and your reflections about motherhood in a journal. Create some memories—and relax—by taking a day off from work to meet a friend, go see a movie, or take a walk in the park. "You will be all-consumed in care giving shortly," relates Simpson. "Build up some good reserves by pampering yourself now!"
Create your Own Relaxation Technique
Whether it's pregnancy yoga, a trip to your favorite hairstylist, or curling up with a good book, create your own relaxation strategy. Just like every woman's experience in pregnancy is unique, so too will your method to relax. Try one tip each week to see if you find something that works for you. Not only will you be helping yourself by learning how to relax, your pregnancy might go by faster, too.