"Some people think you have to be the complete extreme and be the supermom and be able to do everything," says Cabot, who believes she and her husband have found balance. "I think as long as you're happy, your children are happy, your family is happy, and you're doing the best you can—I think that's balance."
"You don't really find balance," says Evans. "You have to continually seek it. It's in the seeking that you actually have some balance in your life. It's like a butterfly. It never really lands on your shoulder, but you can appreciate it as it's flying around."