A Space of Their Own: Making Special Places for Kids

I Don't Want to be Alone

"I don't think that their bedroom is the best place for a child's personal space," recommends interior designer Kitty Bartholomew, host of You're Home on HGTV and mother of three. "Five- to seven-year olds should have their own space, but as part of the family."

Kendrick adds, "If you create space far away from the daily rhythm of the family, the child could interpret it as them being pushed away."

Bartholomew recommends reserving a section of the kitchen or family room for each child. "Cubbies, a drawer or two, a bulletin board, and a small table and chairs will help them organize their things."

Don't expect the space to remain spotless, though. It is unrealistic to assume a young child will keep a room tidy. "Emphasis should not be placed on neatness," Kendrick points out. "It should be on making a stimulating environment where a child can be creative."

By Invitation Only

That creativity should not include making the decorating choices. Bartholomew contends, "Kids are too young and too fickle. They really don't know what they want their space to look like."

Elementary school-aged children generally adjust to their parents' design choices. And while they may not pick the decor, they do want to select who may share their space.

"Five- to seven-year olds are territorial. To be invited into their private space is an honor," concludes Kendrick.

Precious Places: Five Tips on Making a Small Space Special

• Be flexible. Today's special space may not be as precious tomorrow.
• Choose wheeled furniture. Carts, chairs, and tables which can be moved easily will transform any corner into a cozy hideaway.
• A sheet, tablecloth, or room divider offers privacy without isolation.
• Too much stuff equals too much mess.
• Go outside. A small garden plot or even a tree is an open air precious place.