Q&A: How can I wean my 17-month-old?

You should first congratulate yourself for providing the best nutrition for your daughter for more than one year!

Most studies showing the benefits of breastmilk involve the first six months-one year. There is no set age for weaning, although the majority of children are not on the breast at one year. It is a personal decision.

When making the decision to wean, you have to take into account not just your baby, but yourself and the rest of your family as well. If you decide it is time, create a plan and stick with it! Consistency is absolutely key in shaping toddler behavior.

If, by refusing the solids, your daughter gets what she wants in the end, her refusal will be reinforced for the next time. Although it is tough to watch your child NOT eat, NO child will starve him or herself. None. Once hungry enough, children seek food to eliminate the unpleasantness of hunger.

Here are some tips:

1. Make sure your whole family is on the same page and supports you and your plan.

2. Be sure to continue to give your child time with you alone, so the warmth and TLC that the act of breastfeeding also provides isn't taken from her.

3. Choose the time of day that finds her least fatigued and in need of a snuggle to first eliminate the breast, and stick with that pattern. The transition times upon awakening and going to sleep are usually the last that a child wants to forgo. The middle of the day (apart from naps) is often the best.

4. Lastly, even if your child's temperament makes his weaning process your toughest, remember not to let any guilt sneak in. This process should NOT make you feel bad about your mothering skills.

Good Luck!